Friday, July 10, 2009

How to Tell If A Guy Likes You in 5 Easy Ways


Sometimes it is difficult to ascertain if the attraction you feel for someone is reciprocated. I have formulated 5 easy techniques for you determine if a guy likes you.

Notice his eye contact. Men react to eye contact in different ways if they are fond of you. If he likes you, he may either look away quickly if he is shy, or he'll try to catch your eye and hold it if he is more confident. It’s a fact that when a guy likes you his pupils will dilate when you speak to him. This is difficult to pick up on, so I recommend getting as close as possible to his face and watch his pupils when you talk to him to make sure you can see if they dilate.

Examine his subtle body language. If a man is attracted to you, you may be able to pick up on the restrained body language that says “I like you”. If he thrusts his hips at you when you walk by, or if he licks his lips and then grabs his crotch when he looks at you, it might mean he likes you.

Listen to what he's saying. Really listen to what he is saying to try to determine the true meaning of his words. If he is fond of you, and he will probably say something like “I like you.”, or “You have enormous boobs.” or “You look like a hooker.” Learn to read between the lines of what he is saying as he might just be hinting that he is attracted to you.

Be aware of touching. He might light put his hand on your arm when he laughs, or he might not move his leg if it happens to touch yours. He may hug you for small things. He might hug you for no reason at all. He might even hug you for long extended periods of times at awkward or inappropriate times. He may even “accidentally” touch your breast or “accidentally” unhook your bra. These are all very subtle ways a guy is trying to tell you he likes you.

Check for signs of nervousness. Anxious extended periods of laughter, sweaty palms, deep breaths, eye twitching, and total loss of bladder control are all good signs of an attraction towards you and that he is nervous about making an impression on someone he fancies.

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